“Manifest helped me deal with depression and isolation, and now I have a partner and a community that gives me hope.”
— Brian Taylor, R.N., 54, clinic head nurse

“Inside every man there is a playful, loving, and powerful spirit that has been put down, made fun of, and silenced, AND which is nonetheless yearning to be set free to play with, love, and be accepted by other men.”

A diverse group of men from Manifest have come together to create the Men’s Spirit Pajama Parties. These events help adult men of all ages, colors, sizes, shapes, backgrounds, and identities (gay, straight, bi, trans, etc.) explore authentic, nurturing connections with other men.

We will play with compassion: expressing, maintaining, and transforming our boundaries and identities. We will risk profound safety and unbridled spontaneity. We will move away from the divisiveness of looksism, sexism, homophobia, racism, commercialism, classism, and ageism to create the kinds of friendships, acceptance, alliances, and play we’ve always wanted. And we will have pillow fights and make silly faces.

Pajama Parties are usually held during Fall, Winter and Spring seasons. .
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